The Hidden Danger of Taking Advice from Successful People
Discover why studying success and taking advice from billionaires is a terrible way to learn. The survivorship bias trap makes invisible failures dangerous, and here is how to avoid it.
The Hidden Danger of Taking Advice from Successful People: The Survivorship Bias Trap
We are obsessed with success. We read biographies of billionaires. We study morning routines of CEOs. We listen to podcasts where elite athletes share their "secrets." It seems logical: if you want to be successful, do what successful people do.
Except it's a terrible way to learn. This approach suffers from a fatal flaw called survivorship bias. By only studying the winners, we completely ignore all the people who did the exact same things but failed.
Here is why taking advice from successful people is often bad advice—and what you should do instead.
The Problem With Studying Success
During World War II, the US military studied bombers returning from missions. They mapped where the planes had taken bullet holes. The goal was to add armor to the places taking the most damage.
It makes sense, right? However, a statistician named Abraham Wald pointed out a critical error. The military was only looking at the planes that survived. The planes that took hits to the engines didn't come back. Therefore, the military needed to put armor where the returning planes had no bullet holes.
We make this exact same error when studying successful people. We only look at the survivors.
The Graveyard of Invisible Failures
When a tech billionaire drops out of college to start a massive company, the media writes articles about how college is obsolete. "Look at Steve Jobs! Look at Mark Zuckerberg!"
Notice what's missing? The thousands of college dropouts who started companies that failed. They took the exact same action: dropping out. They had the same ambition. However, they didn't succeed. Because they failed, no one writes articles about them. Consequently, they are invisible.
This creates a dangerous illusion. It makes the path to success look simple and deterministic. "Drop out + start company = billions." However, the reality is much more complex.
Luck is Often the Missing Variable
Successful people hate attributing their success to luck. It diminishes their hard work. Therefore, when asked how they succeeded, they point to their habits. They wake up at 4 AM. They take cold showers. They read 50 books a year.
However, thousands of unsuccessful people also wake up at 4 AM and take cold showers. If the habits were the true cause of success, everyone doing them would succeed. They don't.
This means something else is at play. Often, that something is timing, geography, genetics, or pure luck. Survivorship bias blinds us to these invisible factors. We copy the visible habits, completely missing the invisible advantages that actually drove the success.
The Danger of "Risk-Taking" Advice
"Take big risks! Never give up!" This is the standard advice from people who took massive risks and won. It sounds incredibly inspiring.
However, what about the people who took massive risks, lost their life savings, and went bankrupt? You don't hear their advice. Why? Because the media doesn't interview bankrupt people for success advice.
Therefore, taking risk advice solely from successful people is mathematically dangerous. It only shows you the upside of risk, completely hiding the devastating downside that happens to the majority. Instead of blinding persisting, sometimes the best move is knowing when to quit rather than risking everything.
What Actually Works: Inverting the Problem
Instead of asking "What do successful people do?", ask "What do failed people do?"
This concept is called inversion. It is championed by brilliant thinkers like Charlie Munger. Avoiding stupidity is much easier than achieving brilliance.
You might not know exactly what it takes to build a billion-dollar company. However, you definitely know what destroys a company: running out of cash, fighting with co-founders, building a product nobody wants. If you simply avoid doing those things, your chances of success improve dramatically.
Study the Failures
The next time you want to succeed at something, don't read the success stories. Read the post-mortems of the failures.
If you want to start a restaurant, don't talk to the one chef whose restaurant got a Michelin star. Talk to the ten chefs whose restaurants went out of business in the first year. They will give you far more actionable advice about cash flow, location, and staffing.
Failures are highly instructional. Successes are highly circumstantial. Sometimes, being wrong actually makes you smarter.
Conclusion: Stop Copying the Winners
The survivorship bias trap makes us copy the morning routines of billionaires, hoping it will make us rich. It won't.
Taking advice from successful people isn't entirely useless. However, it's dangerously incomplete. To get a true picture of reality, you must look at the entire dataset, not just the tiny percentage that won the lottery.
Stop obsessed over what the winners did right. Start obsessing over what the losers did wrong. Avoid their mistakes, and you might just become a survivor yourself.
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